When push comes to shove, is it God's word, recorded in the form of a book by an imperfect mankind? Or is it God's word, spoken into the heart of an imperfect woman?

They're telling me different things; very different things. I've been pondering a while now...

Both Book and Heart agree on this, though: "No matter what [we] say, what [we] believe, and what [we] do, [we're] bankrupt without love... love extravagantly." (1 Cor. 13:3,13)